My therapist told me I should tell my wife as in the past I didn't tell her and internalized it which added to the problem.

So I called my wife in a venting manner. She just said she was sorry to hear that. I asked how her day was going and she said better than mine (I think she was trying to be funny, but there was no emotion).

The frustration mounts.

I need to remember to stay focused.

Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13