Quote: After W and D got back, I mentioned that our German band group was having a kickoff party the following Saturday and asked if I should send off an RSVP for it. W was very noncommittal about it - acted as if she didn't care one way or the other. Now these people are as much her friends as they are mine - but I get the sense that she now considers that as "Bob's Thing" rather than "Our Thing."
if you wish to go then rsvp for yourself...make arraigments either with w or someone else to tend to the kids and go...if w wishes to join you fine..if not...you go do YOUR THING and have a great time!
