Here are my latest thoughts on what to say in counseling tonite. I would love some feedback:

I can understand/relate to how the past has made her frustrated/angry due to my lack of emotional support/interest (again to acknlowdge how she felt, but direct the emotion to her current emtions). Its just as frustrating for me now as she has said that logically it makes sense to try again, but her emotions (anger/hurt/pain) are preventing her from trying to find love for someone who hurt her so badly. She has also said that it is hard for her to look for support from someone who hurt her so badly, but I want her to know I'm a different person now and I want to be there for her.

What do you think?

Too much pressure? Too weak?

Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13