Are you willing to share what happened? It's OK if you're not. I'm just wondering if you know why it "blew up in your face."

Lucky

P.S. I haven't read the Venus/Mars book yet, but it's on the list. So you know, the second chapter of Passionate Marriage is hard to get through, but then it gets much easier. Do your time with the books, Mike, especially NMMNG, even though it feels like drudgery. It will pay off!