So, today (9 Feb), I get an email from WW out of the blue. I have not seen nor talked with her in two months. She is with OM.

Email -- "Talked with (son) last night. He said dog tore up all his cushions and craps everywhere. His cats are a little wild also. How have you been? All the (grand)kids ask about you, you should pick them up for a couple hours one of these weekends. Do you think you could drop off my stationary bike?"


SOOOO -- what am I dealing with here. Any ideas on how or how not to respond?


BS (me) 57
WW (her) 51
M - 27+ years
Sons - 34/21
daugh - 32/26
D-day - (A#1 Apr 98) (A#2 Oct 08)
Status - minimal contact (me)
living with OM (her)
Divorce - Scheduled for Apr 09