What just made it tougher is that I got out of a meeting where we need to decide on either taking another 40 people out of our company or enacting an across the board 20% pay cut. We (the executive team) have already taken 20% pay cut so this would make a total of 40% of us.

Normally I would talk/vent to my wife about that, but now I feel very alone in trying to figure out how to deal with it.

Do you think this is something I can talk to her about?

Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13