Hey there Confused. You're still doing great IMO. Keep up the good work. You're doing the right thing by coming here to vent your emotions rather than go to your W.
The fact is that you said that your W was seeing and acknowledging the changes you've made. That's an amazing thing. Keep it up. Right now, your W is obviously really confused and doesn't believe that these changes are going to be permanent. It's your job now to make sure they do remain permanent. She's admitted that giving it another chance is the logical thing to do. Now you need to be patient and DB your A$$ off to make the woman of your dreams fall fro you all over again.
Don't lash out whatever you do and try not to let your negative emotions towards your W show. Keep acting 'as if' and show her your PMA. What she needs now is to really believe you've changed for the better. Give it time. Your W is confused at the moment.
We're all here for you on the boards. Use us to vent, not your W. You really are doing great. Well done.
Me: 32, Wife: 22 Son: 2 Married: 2 years Separated: January 5th 2009
Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.
