Just found out wife filed

[RobD70]

I'm still in anger mode which makes it easy to avoid seeing/hear from the W. I'm trying to pretend she doesn't exist and when I do think about her I ask myself "What does she offer that some other woman can't fill?". In my case, I think I may be better off without her. I think if I can fully get over just the rejection part it will be smooth sailing for me.

I know one day when she starts thinking clearly she will kick herself for letting me get away. Our M could have been easily been save since out problems were so minor compared to most but SHE with her all or nothing attitude pretty much doomed us. In an effort to not hurt feelings it ended up backfiring and made things 10x worse. She will end up alone after all of this but I will be a better person. I just hope one day this anger fades and I just stop caring what happens. Until then she's dead to me.