Being content for now.

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Thanks Guys...My H has done this before, only difference with it this time is that the OW has gotten remarried and is out of the picture for sure! He has made new female friends, but his therapist has told him he needs to make MALE friends. I am doing this at his pace. But I feel like he wants me to say some magic word that will make him come home. This is however the longest time He has stayed to the same thought for more than a couple of weeks. I think We are better friends now, but he is afraid that is all we will ever be. Again, I dont know what to tell him. I told him that my heart is guarded well this time and that I dont have the same "inlove" feelings as I did before. He asked how do I know they will come back...I said because I want them to and I will have to let my guard down first. We both want the same things. Happiness. He keeps asking me why Im so understanding about his confusion and everything. What can I say? That Ive read up on the subject? lol.

I do believe he is depressed somewhat. But thankfully he sees a therapist every week and she is telling him he is not ready and I agree with that. But I dont know her reasons for telling him that. He doesnt agree with all that his therapist says. He told me that even his parents have sat him down and told him he needs to go home. But I dont know if thats because they truly mean it or just want him out of their camper! Probably both.