"Tonight before I go to bed I am going to tell her "You know you can always come back to our room. It is a big bed and I promise I will not bite ya""
Doc,
I think this is a great idea. It at least opens the door to that possibility, a door that she may think is closed. I have wondered whether her dragging her feet in terms of moving into her "own room" has to do with her not wanting to have her own room in an official way, or has to do with you trying to make her do it.
You letting her know that you open open to an "our room" allows her that opportunity and removes the pressure.
