About her hair...as a woman we want those things noticed. I wouldn't say a word! She wants you to notice. If she says something like 'do you like my hair?' just say 'oh, did you do something new?'.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!