I think that you should do what YOU want. I know you are looking for help here. That's the best I can give you. If it were me, I would keep well away. You don't need a meal to talk assets. You can do that by letter if you have to.
It all depends on how you are feeling about meeting. If there is a knot in your stomach then maybe you are NOT ready for talking just yet. In my case, I want to get to a place where I can talk to my W without ANY worries. Then I'll be totally objective about the conversation and if it goes somewhere I don't like, I can just walk away with no bother. That's MY goal though, what's yours??
