FIB, if it were a show for your bday, I'd say "break a leg" but it's skiing so...forget it.
And as I told you in the email, (for reasons beyond the scope here), she's more paranoid and terrified than I realized; it's all in there mixed up in her head.
Give her the dang passports and be done with it, which I assume will make her arguments moot. (Probably already done.)
She fears you more than anything Frank, she sees you as having all the power. And in a way, you do have all the power. That's what sanity, strength and honor give a man, when dealing with someone controlled by poorly targeted insecurities and petty grievances. What must her family think?
You said the end of April is an "unofficial" goal or expectation for this to be over, right? Time for a Broadway show, and pomegranate martinis! Pretty sure there are many here who will join in a "virtual" party for this move. Hang in there, you can do this and you are doing it. As you manly men say, "strength and honor"... and stuff like that.
((( j )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016