What she is asking me to do as far as the financial responsibility is what I should be doing anyway and though she is rigid when she sets her jaw, I don't think she will stay that way once I have gotten on the path to stability.
I always reserve the right to tell her I'm not interested later on.
She has actually spelled out what she needs from me for the first time in 6 months and told me what she is willing to do if I can make it.