I would really reinforce his effort right now. I would assure him that he has to do this at his own pace. He has to be 100 percent to come home, maybe that means that he spends time alone for a while, just concentrating on him getting better. No dating or female friends. Confusion is a normal part of depression. Maybe he would benefit now from learning about what depression is and what it looks like. As depression is lifted, feelings tend to return. I huge part in getting to this point is for him to realize and admit he has a problem.
Last edited by TRUSTING; 02/09/0903:44 AM.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
