I'll be in Tampa. No friends there. I used to live in Jacksonville Fl. Its about 3 hours from Tampa.

I'm not going to be talking relationship with the W while I am there.

I did try to laugh tonite and tell her, ok, you got me. Good practicle joke on whole divorce thing. You really had me going. That was a good one. Then I looked at her and she said uh huh. I was like dang it. Oh well, was worth a try. lol.

I would love for you and Mel to come visit in Tampa. We can all walk the beach together. That would be very nice. Let me know if yall want to do that at some point in the next few months. Would be great to have some friends down there to hang with for a bit.
Plenty of room at the house.

I have been thinking about getting that book co-dependent no more. Does it tell you how to break yourself of it though? I know it tells you what it is. Is it helping you any to break free from it?

Well, I am still packing. Was going to get my haircut today, tomorrow, and now it looks like when I get to Tampa.

I sign the waiver of service tomorrow morning along with getting the custody agreement notorized. Apparently I also submit my answer on the divorce tomorrow morning to when I sign.

I'm not looking forward to it. Maybe I should ask my W for a quickie before I sign it. lol. Probably not the best idea since she will have to be at work right after.


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...