In the reading I have been doing the book said that in the corridors of your heart there is a room called the "Appreciation room" On the walls of this room a written kind words and phrases describing the good attributes of my wife. Written here are words that she is a great cook, great in math, she has Beautiful eyes, Pretty Smile and all of the things I appreciate in her. But down the dark corridor of my heart there is another room.” the Depreciation Room". On the walls of this room are the things that bother and irritate me about my wife. Written on the wall of this room is the OM phone Number, I have posted the Pictures of my wife with the OM. I have written things like "she doesn't care" and "they are a pair now".. I have been going back and forth between these to rooms for the last 2 years. I never realized it.I would some how wander into the Depreciation Room and spend some time there. Whenever I spent time in the Depreciation Room I have been ready to give up. I was that much closer to a Divorce. Luckily I did leave this room every now and then and went back to the Appreciation room and would try again. They say with knowledge comes wisdom. Since I have read this I now realize what I was doing. What has happened these last few days is that I have become aware if these two rooms. I still forget and I do open the door to the Depreciation Room. But as soon I looked in I realize where I am and close the door quick. This has helped me keep my PMA. I am not there yet, I am far from it. But I have seen a small change in my wife. This weekend she was supposed to move out of son's room. I asked her if she was planning on sleeping there tonight. (I noticed she had not set up the other bedroom yet) she said she has not had time. I told her "ya I know, now that you are working you get home late" she said she was going to work on it during the week. I said that's fine I was just asking... Tonight before I go to bed I am going to tell her "You know you can always come back to our room. It is a big bed and I promise I will not bite ya"
Later Doc
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
