My situation #8

[steady]

Last thread got locked up tight. Here's the link to the last one:

My situation #7

I'm going to repaste the last few posts from my last thread:

If it makes you feel any better, you are NORMAL, NORMAL, NORMAL. Yes I said NORMAL.

I would GAL like crazy and still find reasons to cry. I obsessed about the situation, woke up several times a night, couldn't even play the radio in case I heard a romantic song.

It takes time. Give yourself the time and the permission to feel all of these feelings. Its ok. You are ok even if this is going on in your life.

I know it doesn't feel like you will ever get stronger, but you will. Focus on the next step. Every night make a plan for something you are going to do the next day. Every morning review your plan and focus on it.

If you feel sad, give yourself permission to feel it and to cry. There is nothing wrong with crying.

You are going to get through this. I had someone say to me today, I know you have faith. Sometimes we have to realize that God doesn't give us more than we can handle. I just wish he didn't trust me so much.

Steady..focus...you better focus..

focus in this order...

1. YOUR job...you got a brand new job..you want to keep that job..right now..it's very important..focus on it..

2. You and your kids

3. GAL...now..quit f**king around and GAL..

4. your emotional well being and physical...quit being a pussy..it's time to be a man...

5. The wife..you see she's frinkin LAST..she's frinkin LAST...don't be an ass to her but don't put her ass first either..

move FORWARD..MOVE FORWARD..put one foot in front off the other and move forward...

if you guys D..she will be banging somebody else..it's pretty plain and simple...you might think it will bother you but the truth is it's not gonna bother you that much cause you'll be banging somebody else too..unless of course you're gonna join a monastery somewhere.. truth of the matter is this..by the time this is all said and done you will be so detached she could bang somebody in front of you and you'd feel sorry for the poor bastid..

so detach..detach like there is no tomorrow..

When I get some time later on I'll reply.