All right Stacy and Melissa, Now I am confused. I purused the DB book today. I have done nothing but 180s. I have not called or emailed her today or yesterday. She called me 4 times yesterday. How am I supposed to DB my butt off and give her space to think and be by herself? She has had 6 months to plan this and seems quite resolved. So, again how do I DB if she doesn't call or email? How do I win her back over? I know the standard stuff--no begging, pleading, crying, etc. Don't appear needy, listen without responding except when an apology is needed, etc.
Help me out please!
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!