You really need to give her her time, read the book and take things slow. Right now there is hope. Take that hope and build on it. Don't discuss R or her plans. Just be the best H you can in the sitch. Make appt for C. You do that not her. Don't sit back and wait for her to take care of things. Take what the book says and what we tell you here and apply it to what might work for you. Just remember her feelings and what she has been through for the last year.
Fingers crossed here too!
H-41 (alcoholic) Me-38 D-13 SD-10 T-6yrs M-4.75yrs Bomb-10/4/08 Moved in w/OW 11-13-08
