Been looking at other sites and ran across something interesting. It appears that it's best to avoid trying to be friends with the WAS if at all possible. You can be friendly, but not a shoulder to cry on or even just chit-chat. This is assuming there's an OM/OW involved that is. See, you end up filling in a void that the OP may be missing and end up enabling the A by giving them the best of both worlds. The WAS has the miss you and your friendship. This is why NC can be so important. If kids are involved all I could so is always look your best and happy but no small talk when you see them.
