I'm sorry you had THAT conversation and he cried.. but didnt change his mind. You sound like you have worked through it and come to a place of peace, depsite the disappointment of it not working out. No doubt the R with the aub wont last, sadly, as it makes what he did even more of a waste hey.
Good luck with the job stuff this week! Thinking of you, Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread