My wife sent me a text this morning saying that she was going to talk to the lawyer this week. I'm starting to panic. I responded to the text by simply saying "ok" and left it alone. The kids were with their grandparents so I left before she got home. While I know I need to act in a positive way, I was feeling so emotionally overwhelmed that I knew I would probably break down, so I figured it was best to just not be there for that to happen.

I have since come home and I asked her if I needed to pick up the kids of if they were being dropped off. I then sat down and started typing this. I have not flipped out, did not freak, did not bring it up, didn't beg her not to, etc.

I'm reading DR now, but can someone please point me in the right direction? Is there something specific I need to do once she has gone to the lawyer? If she files what then? I'm hoping to read as much as I can in DR tonight, but if anyone can shoot any sort of advice, ideas, suggestions, or support I would appreciate it greatly!!!


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