Lan,
it bothers me too that he will claim he tried. He even hugged me on his way in and out of the house as he said and stopped when he realised things didnt move forward... For a man that found out he cant live a balanced life without me, sure gave up fast.

Jeff, today my heart hurt and I couldnt shut up although I knew he was going to say I was poorly coparenting. I only said quietly "dont torture him, enough, stop". My son told me in the bathroom "he hates me, cant you see, he hates me mommy". Because H lost it. He was going on a crescendo, meaner and meaner with no response from S, just crying...
That's what went on for 6-8 months before he moved out. Everything felt so familiar lately. His anger at the MC, his eyes, his face. I have some incidents that happened with my phone that lead me to believe he has contacted her again...
K


Me&H:42
S11&D10
Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007
Reconc.November 2009