Sorry I have not written in awhile. Been busy on my own deal ya know.
I love this board. I love that Mel feels bad giving you great advice and and yet you should be paying her for it!
We are very similar, Kevin. We both put too much of our ability in our W. Like we were nothing without them. I too feel that if we D, what would I do?
Let me tell you and if you look you probably have similar stuff to think back that you did:
Before second M to W:
I moved to CA. I opened a restaurant I had to go before city council and ask that my restaurant be where I wanted it to be. I had to borrow 75K I had to sign a lease.
I did all that on my own, with no W.
I'm worried now that I can't do anything with out her. I fear life on my own again and fear life for my kids with D parents. Why do I fear my ability? I just told my self I can go either way, now I chose to DB.
You will GAL in Florida and you have new friends on this board who want to hear from you and support you.
It sucks I know, but I know you tried and it is not over till it is over.
Twice
Me:45;W-47 Married 17 years this time Married in '82 for 3 years and divorced, both walked away. Re-married '91 D16 at home S15 at home (Special Needs) *************************** Wife EA June 08 Bomb August 08 Living in same house
