Stacy,
I hear you. Good points all around. I do think that has something to do with it and I have expressed my appreciation while I was deployed and when I got home as well. Told her initially when I got home I would take care of everything--she said good you're gonna have to cause I'm leaving.

The sit has progressed over a few days from I want a divorce to lets just have a seperation and see what happens to I need a seperation but still want to be married and want to go to counseling. Trying not to have too much hope. Emotions are starting to normalize a little. I can finally talk about it or think about it without getting weepy. Trying to understand it is the hard part for me.

Finally got the DB book so I'm gonna jump off here and read for a bit. I am hoping and praying that my beautiful wife will change her mind and come home!


M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!