To answer your question Naej, I've not had the ring off my finger since my W put it there on our wedding day except once to have it resized. I don't even take it off to swim, wash, etc. My gut feeling is to leave it on. I was worried that it may annoy her though and therefore hinder my chances of reconcilliation. I suppose it's a small detail in the grand scheme of things though. Thanks for your advice.


Me: 32, Wife: 22
Son: 2
Married: 2 years
Separated: January 5th 2009

Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.