Maybe if she was screwing me with all the bills, then it would be worth it.
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Don't discount this, AF. Please do protect yourself in this regard. I've seen wayward spouses wipe out bank accounts and max out credit cards so fast your head would spin. Are you protected here?
I'm glad you're not giving up. I knew you wouldn't. I can tell your mettle, and you DO have SOME opportunities for screw-ups, delays, and just "don't-need-to-do-anything-today" days.