Sorry I haven't been around. I wanted to stop in to give you a hug. She is completly out of control. I hope the judge sees right through this. Your boys need you, its not about HER anymore, its about there relationship with you.
As much as I might be mad or angry at H, I would never ever use that as a threat. They need there father, and it doesn't matter what our relationship is, Kids need both parents in their lives. She is using them as a pawn, and that boils my blood.
Hang in there, stay with it, and like yoyo said, have as much limited interaction with her as possible. Its not healthy for you, to hear those things over and over again. Don't give her the opportunity. If you have to speak to her on the phone for something, state facts, and thats all. If she starts with you, I would just politely say, I will not let myself be subjected to this anymore. Have a nice day, and hang up. I know its hard not to fight back BELIEVE me, im a fighter, but this is a never ending battle with her and her posion.
You can always email me in the alt. universe... thinking of you, take care.
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
