Talked w/ my SS and asked him what purpose his interaction served. He said he was just mad--I said please just stay out of it, you did more harm than good.
AFWAW,
A few things that you need to be damn near perfect at:
Take care of the kids and don't hurt them with your words. Whatever you do/say will get back to your W....it is a reflection of who you are becoming. Be strong for your kids and love them through this. They are hurting TOO!
DO NOT SNOOP! Keyloggers....checking her e-mail...will do NO good and LOTS OF HARM! Trust me...most of us tried it and it burned us! Anything you learn is useless if you want to restore your marriage. It might be helpful if your goal is to be D and mess of your W...which I know it is not.
Read the DB Book today if you can! Detach, GAL, 180s...all critical steps!
Best wishes for you, AFWAW! As a former vet myself, I want to tell you how much I appreciate your service! You are a good man.....and even though it might not feel like it this minute, there are lots of good signs in your sitch! Take care!
Praising God Daily, Remaining "FaithfulH" Me: 62 W: 62 D:33 S:30 & 31 Married: 40 Years BD: Sep 2006 Piecing: May 2007 2nd BD: May 2014 Working On It: Today
