The weekend has gone ok so far. Yesterday when I woke up, H had surprised me and actually did a load of laundry. The funny thing is he mad a point to wash a pair of my scrubs for work. H has never done that before. I was pretty surprised, but also pleased.
I did get irritated later when I asked H if he had any plans for next weekend. I know I shouldn't have asked let alone get irritated, but I couldn't help myself. H asked me what was next weekend and I told him it was Valentine's day. He was real casual and said he hadn't thought about it. My response was, "well let me know if you want to do something because I have already had several offers to go out and if you don't want to do anything I will go with them."
At first I think he was taken back, as if the offers were from OM. He asked me who with and I told him (all girl friends). Then I said "I have a life too you know." Shouldn't have said that. I wish I had just left it a bit of a mystery. Oh well, I can't go back now.
I don't know if it will make any difference. It seems that H is hapy to spend time together as a family, but resistant to spend time with just me by myself. I don't know. I know I shouldn't expect him to be having plans for the next weekend, but I can't help but be a little hurt. H has always been the romantic one, with many surprises for me on special occassions. Now that I think about it, it's been a few years since he has done anything like that. I wish I had opened my eyes to that a few years ago.
I hope everyone is having a great weekend. God Bless! K
