Ahhh.. thats an interesting perspective, I hadnt thought of that, that some of us avoid talking to RL people (and talk here instead) becuase people in RL can be too negative, or judgemental. I've had a bit of that early on, but it makes me realise I am lucky that my friends and family have been very supportive and 'get' DBing and also, dont bad mouth my ex. I did take great pains to explain the concept of DBing, and being forgiving and patient etc (as some people suggested things like "I'd rip his head off!").
I like ITHs point, I thought that too.. he didnt HAVE to send a warm email like that, he does seem to be growing a little confidence in being friendlier with you. Hope the viewing went ok and you are having a good weekend, Al xxx
