I am going on 4 days not contacting xh. I no he is with ow and it makes me sick to even think of him, *the man I was married to for 20 years*. Today I was at work and he came to my house and brought my son something to eat, my son said he asked where I was. He also took my vacumm cleaner. Although I have 2, I do not want to give him anything right now because the last time he saw me he told me I wasnt welcome at his house. He DID NOT come into my house today, according to my son. but sat in the driveway and my son brougt him the vacumm out. Why do you suppose he asked about me? I know he was expecting me to call about the vacumm and get angry, but I didnt, I did what he DID NOT expect. NOTHING!