It's kind of liberating when you get to a point where you really don't care whether it works or not. Allows you to do the things you NEED to do without fear of what her reaction will be.
Just a ? for you. Why do you even try if you don't really care either way?
I have read what you posted on Mel's thread and I would love your thoughts on mine if you wouldn't mind.
H-41 (alcoholic) Me-38 D-13 SD-10 T-6yrs M-4.75yrs Bomb-10/4/08 Moved in w/OW 11-13-08