So sorry about the name mixup. I am not myself this week, as you have probably read on my post. Sorry.
I know what you mean about Valentine's day. It's the decorations and the ads everywhere. I wish they would all shut up about it. What is worse is that we know our H's would be celebrating with someone else. Yuk! And the worse thing is that my H proposed to me on Valentine's Day so you get the idea of why it's so hard for me.
Back to you, papers. Papers are just papers. What is his attitude like lately? Is he still in total fog or is he miserable sometimes? Or are you so detached that you don't care (which is a good thing too)?
I have been reading more posts in MLC and it's helping me with understanding H's actions. Maybe some of it would help you too. Patience, serving papers doesn't mean final D. Final D doesn't mean it has to be forever. Think Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton. Only death is final, everything else is negotiable.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
