If she thinks you are the type of guy who comes home after a year in Iraq and goes out the first or second night looking to screw other women, then why did she marry you?? She does not think that. And if she does THEN IT'S HER PROBLEM. It's HER false belief, NOT yours. You have done nothing wrong, and she has no reason not to believe you. AND LET'S JUST SAY YOU WERE, FOR ARGUMENT'S SAKE....what...is she jealous??? Why should she be jealous if she doesn't want the marriage anymore??
So let it go. No worries. You're doing good. Really.
Melissa
"Standing knee deep in a river and dying of thirst."