Everything is your fault. If you tell her, you're trying to reconnect w/ her from need and causing pressure. If you don't, when she finds out she feels guilt, and guilt is pressure.
Get used to this right now, today. Go ahead and vent about it here, but expect it from this point forward.
The thing is, everything is your fault b/c they are searching for a reason to leave.
This is easy to hear, easy to say ok, I get it, but in reality, it keeps biting us in the rear.
In reality, it's a matter of someone who is in the process of leaving, wants to leave, and is searching for a reason. Every interaction that leads to conflict is a reason. Every conflict that you give in to leads to a reason, (he's not the man I knew, no-one I can respect.)
The simple fact is that you can't be "right," so you might as well be "a man," or more to the point, be who you were at the beginning, be strong, be yourself, and don't punk out to the "alien."
Best,
Punkt.
These are my friends now!
But someday baby... You ain't worry my life anymore
Take away, take away what I don't need, save the good part please. Fade away, fade away.
