\My wife is going to leave me in 5 days--help!

[AFWAW]

Yeah, I dressed up and walked out of my room and my SS said wow pretty snazzy--you can tell you lost weight--where u going? I said out--he said cool. Went to a local sports bar w/ a friend from work and caught up things and had a few beers. What do you know--she called again but this time Melissa I followed your advice and didn't answer--wanted to really bad and tell her to get her ass home but resisted. My buddy said yeah let her think you're out having the time of your life. She left a voicemail--nothing big just some info and have a good time tonight(guess she came back home to get some clothes, wow it sucks bad that she doesn't even want to be at home) and I'll see you tomorrow.

This DB technique is actually quite scary to me as I could see it backfiring? Any thoughts on that? I mean I still want her to come back home and don't necessarily think I'm out screwing other women--damn I've been married a while...

I am trying to be realistic--but still jet-lagged and broken-hearted. If I don't have hope then I might as well give up. Want so bad for this to be better.

Good analogy w/ the stinky bait--point taken and I think I did ok w/ not answering the phone call. Well good night all, maybe I'll be able to get a decent nights sleep??? Hope so.