That is positive and that is great. That OW has serious issues. Not sure what your H sees in her. Someone like that would scare me the he!! away.
Sounds like you are playing things very cool. I'll bet either he gets tired of the crap or she pulls something stupid on him and again he says to heck with her.
I'd just be patient. I think there is more promise than you might think at the moment. Just sit back and do your thing. I'll bet he comes back around once he gets tired of this OW pulling crap.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...