JJ, Yea for your Tuesday plan - you are focusing and staying on track!
Not only is being lighthearted and relaxed good behavior modification, but it is recovering the fun and wonderful JJ that you really are. It is so great that you are putting your effort into that. I mean, into you!
Let me know how mirroring works for you. It is wonderful to hear the response you got from your initiation. It's possible that A has also felt he was taking a risk, as you have, when deciding to contact you. So, by initiating back in a balanced way, you may be encouraging him to feel safer/more confident to continue contacting you.
Yes, ponder that and let me know, OK?
Dear JoJo, as always, hugs back, Laurie
Laurie, Divorce Busting Coach Contact The Divorce Busting Center at 303-444-7004 or 800-664-2435 if you would like to schedule a telephone consultation with a DB Coach - or email virginia@divorcebusting.com for info.
