I agree, his email does show concern, even if it's via Maple. He also feels comfortable to show his concern. He could have just written a sentance or a few words, but that's not the case.

Putting your house on the market & having showings all the time must be hell. I treasure my privacy as well. Julia, you are doing great & being so strong.

My answer to Ali's question about not talking in RL. For me I was sick & tired of the advise & would just get pissed off. I needed to find my own way whether my friends & family agreed or not. Many friends can be emotional bullies, & cannot give the support you need - which is simple understanding.

Sorry, to hijack your thread Julia.


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