Hi Lisa, Wait, did you file for divorce? Did you tell H that you wanted a divorce? Or have you just decided?
I'm at the same point. I'm holding tight that the next time I see H that I'm going to tell him I want one. He isn't w/ The Horse, but they are still friends and I know he is in love with her.
I still cry though. But I realize what we have now is familiarity, not love and friendship is pretty lacking.
H & I, both 32, together since 18. *M 7/03, A since 9/06. Bomb 7/07, H ended it w/ OW 9/08 * Agreed to D 6/09...very hard *D 8/10 * At peace, have become great friends w/ X-H and his new GF
