So I'm getting more and more friends chirping in my ear that I should just let my W see other people. They're saying that since we're already separated and that she already said she wants a divorce, then I really don't have anything to lose. Could it get any worse? I know she has been crying out for her precious space, and she even has said that she feels trapped and like I hold all the cards. So I guess the reasoning is the old "If you love something, set it free..." line.

Has anyone told their WAS to go ahead and date other people? I suppose that I would date too if it came down to that. Not that I feel like dating, but no way would I sit at home like a good little doggy while she goes out and lives it up. I don't even know if she would actually go live it up since she's such an emotional wreck right now.


Me: 33
WAW/MLC: 33
M: 4+, T: 10+
Separated: Nov 08
A#1: Oct 08 - Jan 09 (exposed and ended)
A#2: Feb 09 - ?
1: http://tinyurl.com/mrmistakes
2: http://tinyurl.com/ckch9t
3: http://tinyurl.com/stillwaters3