It's not moving on to someone else, Kev. It's moving on to find yourself.
"She said there's someone else And I've kept it to myself But I can't keep these feelings locked inside I need to tell you this It's one of your old friends One you haven't talked to in a while
She said I'm leaving And there's nothing you can do I said I had a feeling you found somebody new And I'll bet I can guess his name But it's so hard to believe 'Cause she said you're not even close It's someone you don't know I'm leaving you for me"
Florida??? And you want to play softball?? Are you kidding me?? You take your butt down to that beach every day. You go deep sea fishing. You have LIFE experiences that you will NEVER get the chance to do again and you LET THEM CHANGE YOUR LIFE. You take advantage of absolutely every opportunity that is put in front of you. Forget the women.
I've learned something about good things. They come along when you aren't looking for them. They come along when you have resigned yourself to finding them. It's like looking for a new puppy kind of. If you call a breeder you are going to pay $550 for a 6 week old Australian Shepherd. We'll say blue merle cause that's what my fat girl is. If you are calling a breeder, you are desperate because you want that dog RIGHT NOW. That's not a good thing. So you wait. Sometimes they show up on your door step and take six weeks to trust you (how I ended up with the cat). Sometimes you rescue a dog from a storm drain (how my dad got SugarBear). And sometimes you just for $hits and giggles stop at the pound just so you can have a good laugh at yourself and there she is. Sitting back from the rest. The others are all clamoring to get to you. She is waiting for you to choose her. And you do. That is a good dawg. PATIENCE. You don't need to worry about another woman right now. It would just complicate things for you. Let my H be that lesson for you.
Melissa
"Standing knee deep in a river and dying of thirst."