I would say don't sleep with him unless you are comfortable with him leaving and going back to OW. Sleeping with him doesn't mean the M is getting fixed. It just means you are a booty call. If you can handle it and want it, go for it. If it is going to affect you after when he leaves, don't do it. It will hurt more.
I say this and I slept with my W today. But I know that tomorrow and Monday when I take off for Florida, its going to be harder on me because I did. I wanted the connection and the physical part also. But its going to hurt me here very shortly. In fact it already is because now she is discussing the custody agreement.
If you can do it and not have any feelings hurt you after. Go ahead. But otherwise, don't do it.
W is sitting here watching S3x and the city. She watches it regularly. Wonder if that is where she gets some of her ideas from. I have really grown to dislike that show now that everything has happened.
Anyways, we are here for ya. Just make sure whatever you do, you can handle it after.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...