You know what I think, Kevin. I think you are going to get down there and start doing your own thing and get busy. In a couple of weeks, maybe a month, you are going to have time to sit back and reflect and realize how HAPPY you have been to not have to come home to her BS every friggin day. Maybe then you can detach a little more. You can't separate yourself from her at all right now. You have no boundaries. You can't see where you end and she begins.
Keeping my fingers crossed for you.
Melissa
"Standing knee deep in a river and dying of thirst."