I wanted to tell you that when I read your email to your husband a few days ago how much I felt for you because it so beautifully stated everything that I have been feeling in my heart and mind.
And now to read that your challenges continue to grow, I wish that I could offer you some advice, but I am with you in this one. All that I can offer is that it seems to help me to step back and just let things play themselves out with the confidence that I will KNOW when I have to do something.
Perhaps it is a bit psychotic, but it is almost like I am watching things play out like a story in a book or a movie. I'm just not that invested in my H's character right now. And to imagine that if I were a character in my movie, how would I want her to handle things. My friend is studying the Kabbalah right now and this idea of your life as a story is something she is learning.
You have my most positive thoughts.
Take care you.
Married - 19 years Noticed Problem - Aug 2008 THE Conversation - Oct 2008
The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.
