\My wife is going to leave me in 5 days--help!

[AFWAW]

I'm not sure why she doesn't want to take my daughter who is 12. I think its partially because she doesn't want to take her out of her comfort zone and my wife just wants alone time. It seems really selfish but I am not complaining about her leaving my daughter behind as that would really suck if both were gone. She did say that she was a shitty wife and mom and that maybe the kids needed a break from her too cause she was not effective in enforcing discipline and has just been kind of apathetic w/ them. Just wants to be alone--keeps saying this.

I made everything easy too. Because I felt it was the right thing to do and because I felt guilty. H was not the reason I wanted the D. I was. So why should he have had to pay for my mistakes

--this is very similar to what she said to me, interesting.

Leaving her cell laying around is not out of the norm for her. She leaves everything laying around--hence the big fat mess in my house--still optimistic that there is no EA/PA but wary. I am not taking what you and everyone else is saying lightly though.

Good insight and thanks for your support! Gonna start cleaning up a little and relax a little more.