So the way I see it is this. You need to make a decision on whether you're willing to wait this out and give him the time to figure it out on his own, including his contribution to what caused your marriage breakdwon, or you're not.
I am in similar situation to M and I just have some question for you based on your above quote.
1. Do they wake up? 2. What makes the OW lose her appeal 3. Can these retribution / revenge A become the love of their life 4. Is there a pattern and general time frame for this kind of a response from an H who has been betrayed in his marriage. 5. how do yu know when he is done withOW
My concern is that I do not recognise H at all. Incredible, caring father to crap father, work driven H to hardly turns up, from someone who was thoughtful and would never ever hurt either myself or kids to a selfish monster.
I just dont understand or know what to do.
Sorry m -thought some of these answers may help you
