NewMe,

I started with a DB coach about a month ago and agree it is well worth the money. She has helped me to see that there have been a number of positive developments. She has also helped me understand that at this stage of the game, it really does have to be all about my wife, so like you, I focus on being as supportive as I can in all situations.

Have a good workout. I always feel so much better after mine, no matter how down I felt going in. I just finished reading about your sitch, and you really seem to have it together pretty well. Take care,

John


http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Board=20&Number=1655613

Me - 43
W - 40
Lived together - 3 years
Married - 13 years
S - 7
D - 4
Bomb - 05/2008
Separated - 07/2008